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Valentine's Day is a challenge for many people.

Often renamed by the uncoupled sect as "National Singles Awareness Day," it has become a time not to shower love on a significant other, but a time to wallow in your own solitary self loathing. No more I say! Take back the day!

Instead of sitting on the couch indulging in a pint of your favorite Ben and Jerry's, why not head out and join others like yourself in celebrating single hood. Take pride in your independence and enjoy yourself with like minded individuals!

Discover two alternative parties for this Valentine's Day in San Diego.

FunQuest Adventures is hosting an "open to the public" singles wine tasting event at Trisler's Wine Bar in Mission Valley. Register online by Wednesday and pay $20, $25 at the door (if it's not sold out). There will be plenty of time to mingle with the singles as they pour 3 reds and 3 whites with a variety of cheese and crackers on the side. FunQuest Adventures is a San Diego based singles club that hosts over 20 events a month for singles from the 20's to 50's without the pressure of being a dating service. All members are screened by SafeDate so you can be comfortable going to their events.

Partying for a Purpose is having there annual Anti-Valentine's Event "What's Love Got To Do With It?" on Thursday from 9pm-2am at The Fleetwood in East Village.

Hosted by Imperial Vodka and Dopamine, this party features funky deep house with DJ Duane & Hip Hop and Mash Ups with DJ Brett Bartell, Cupid's Go-Go dancers and a silent auction from 9-11pm. The Fleetwood also offers dinner seating at 7pm with three course premium and super premium packages available including wine and champagne pairing. It's $10 at the door and all the proceeds go to benefit needy kids around San Diego through the It's All About The Kids Foundation.

RSVP to RSVP@ItsAllAboutTheKids.org and benefit from a hosted bar from 9-10pm.

Pictured: The Fleetwood

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